Phyllis Kay Bender, 78, of St. Meinrad

Phyllis was born in Perry County on November 27, 1946, to Bernice and Alvin Lasher. She married the love of her life and grade school sweetheart, John Bender, on May 22,1965, and they were happily married for 60 years. 

She was a devoted catholic and lived out what it means to be a true servant of the Lord. She was a dedicated member of St. Meinrad Parish where she served in numerous roles throughout her life. She was a friend to many. She always saw the silver lining, found true beauty in the world around her, greeted everyone with a radiant smile, and never let anyone leave with an empty stomach. She enjoyed playing cards with family and friends, spending time with her grandchildren, tending to her beautiful flower gardens, spending time at the ocean, and sitting on the porch swing with her best friend, John. Phyllis will be deeply missed by those who were lucky enough to have known and loved her.